Randomly remembered a guy those days that was k*lled in computer village those days for stealing blackberry.
If he could come back today, he would be shocked people aren't only not using blackberry but even if you gifted it to someone you might be met with a curse or joke.
This is the problem with majority accepting norms. You've accepted norms vastly which is good but once something doesn't look like what you guys picture in your head, you start running your loud mouths. Leave people alone. Do you, let people do themselves.
Saw a wedding sometimes ago where the guests were really soaking in prayers during the reception and people were saying all sorts.
Leave people alone nau abi?
As una do una own wey una dey tear dance steps and all the beautiful things you do, who was busy saying things? Nobody, so keep that energy and mind your business.
Whoever keeps trying with no improvement will one day give up.
It's the same for your relationship as its the same for your goals.
So its about time, the cup will soon be full.
People wey need help sef get camera and mic.
Platforming people who need intervention ๐
Some of you are with the belief that when it has loads of following then this person must be saying something right or something that makes sense.
This isn't always true.
My friend asked me "what is this reputation capital you speak of"
I answered "letting people trust you and eventually not letting them down"
That's reputation capital.
Why do you think hackers are after profitable tech companies?
Because if they can hack that account and they write you saying you need to make a financial commitment that will set you up for life with the addition of exclusivity to you only, they know you'd fall for it, infact you'd borrow. WHY
"Reputation Capital"
Its widely known that once people discover you're manipulating them, they rebel.
Its the human condition.
I can give you many instances from history but let me tell you my point.
Manipulating isn't the only fuel for rebellion, I've realised.. when I say these, I've taken my time to notice
Even in your relationship with your partner, parents whoever!
The only time you should give them your operational blueprint is if you've seen that its time to change it not when you're still actively using it.
There are some conversations that tell you where you stand.
There are other conversations that is assumed that at your age you shouldn't be having them anymore.
"I get money pass you", "you dey trust man/woman", "where I don reach you never reach there", "you still believe this nonsense about your partner",
Many times these kind of conversations happen between a particular sect, if this is still your headache then I can inferentially say
You've made choices you feel you can get away with that has dented your trust
Your view of the world is only sponsored by materialism
You're looking for a sheep, not because you want to live an easy life but because you want to do whatever and get away with it
You and your friends are silently in aggressive competition
You believe everyone is the same because you cannot comprehend how people choose to live above your temptations.
You always go through circles of high dopamine then depression because you're looking for peace in the wrong places (not your fault)