When I’m mad from my perspective but I can also see their perspective so now I’m carrying double the emotional weight and being eaten away by my anger and empathy
this describes most social interactions — you can never have a productive convo with someone whose goal is to win and who's committed to misunderstanding you… just gotta wrap that up
Not to be rude but as long as you move slow mo as a woman, say bits & pieces of your thoughts but not fully share them & exist without imprinting on others totally— they will think you are the most ‘feminine’ to exist in the room.