Once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. Because they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. People rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
A Texas woman got an abortion. So Texas police used 83,000 Flock cameras to track her down. 83 THOUSAND!! They aren't using these cameras to track down rapists, pedophiles, or traffickers. They're not using them to find your missing children. They're using them to throw women in jail for making choices about their own bodies, with OUR tax dollars.
men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates.
what are you really here for??
A friend borrowed $500 from me.
He promised he’d pay me back “next Friday.”
Next Friday came.
Nothing.
The Friday after that…
Nothing.
Three months later he invited me to his birthday dinner at an expensive restaurant.
When the bill arrived, everyone suddenly became quiet.
I wish KC knew how to articulate himself better. The reason everyone keeps talking crazy to him is because he struggles to translate his thoughts into words. People don’t understand why he’s moving the way he is, so they assume the worst. Half the backlash isn’t even about his intentions it’s because he can’t explain himself.