Patty Tolar

Hypnotherapy and Transformational Coaching
80% of your life is lived from your unconscious. When you change your unconscious programming everything changes.

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@HarmeetKDhillon That looks delicious! I know what you mean about the barbecue grill. It was always my husband's territory and I lost him in Dec. My daughter and I were talking this week about whether we should try to figure out how to run the grill. You've inspired me to make a stab at it!

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@elonmuskPBG 2

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@CWforA @RepHageman Proud to have Harriet Hageman representing my state of Wyoming!

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@RepHageman We are proud of the way you represent Wyoming.

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@Mr_Husky1 I think it looks beautiful and would wear it.

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@HarmeetKDhillon Love it! The colors are awesome.

[Mr PitBull Stories @MrPitbull07]

"My name's Raymond. I'm 73. I work the parking lot at St. Joseph's Hospital. Minimum wage, orange vest, a whistle I barely use. Most people don't even look at me. I'm just the old man waving cars into spaces.
But I see everything.

Like the black sedan that circled the lot every morning at 6 a.m. for three weeks. Young man driving, grandmother in the passenger seat. Chemotherapy, I figured. He'd drop her at the entrance, then spend 20 minutes hunting for parking, missing her appointments.

One morning, I stopped him. "What time tomorrow?"
"6:15," he said, confused.
"Space A-7 will be empty. I'll save it."
He blinked. "You... you can do that?"
"I can now," I said.

Next morning, I stood in A-7, holding my ground as cars circled angrily. When his sedan pulled up, I moved. He rolled down his window, speechless. "Why?"
"Because she needs you in there with her," I said. "Not out here stressing."
He cried. Right there in the parking lot.

Word spread quietly. A father with a sick baby asked if I could help. A woman visiting her dying husband. I started arriving at 5 a.m., notebook in hand, tracking who needed what. Saved spots became sacred. People stopped honking. They waited. Because they knew someone else was fighting something bigger than traffic.
But here's what changed everything, A businessman in a Mercedes screamed at me one morning. "I'm not sick! I need that spot for a meeting!"

"Then walk," I said calmly. "That space is for someone whose hands are shaking too hard to grip a steering wheel."

He sped off, furious. But a woman behind him got out of her car and hugged me. "My son has leukemia," she sobbed. "Thank you for seeing us."

The hospital tried to stop me. "Liability issues," they said. But then families started writing letters. Dozens. "Raymond made the worst days bearable." "He gave us one less thing to break over."

Last month, they made it official. "Reserved Parking for Families in Crisis." Ten spots, marked with blue signs. And they asked me to manage it.

But the best part? A man I'd helped two years ago, his mother survived, came back. He's a carpenter. Built a small wooden box, mounted it by the reserved spaces. Inside? Prayer cards, tissues, breath mints, and a note,

"Take what you need. You're not alone. -Raymond & Friends"
People leave things now. Granola bars. Phone chargers. Yesterday, someone left a hand-knitted blanket.
I'm 73. I direct traffic in a hospital parking lot. But I've learned this: Healing doesn't just happen in operating rooms. Sometimes it starts in a parking space. When someone says, "I see your crisis. Let me carry this one small piece."

So pay attention. At the grocery checkout, the coffee line, wherever you are. Someone's drowning in the little things while fighting the big ones.

Hold a door. Save a spot. Carry the weight no one else sees.
It's not glamorous. But it's everything."

Let this story reach more hearts....

Credit: Mary Nelson

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@iman_560 Alicia

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@GuntherEagleman Happy

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@DonaldTrumpnq YES!!!

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@LibTearCreator1 Both.

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@Nero Sending you prayers for healing. Your mindset has a huge impact on healing so try to visualize your body healing. It can be difficult when you are scared and stressed but will support your body in healing.

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@TheJimAdkins @nhopkins60 I love Tony & Ziva
There are quite a few people posting on here about the show.

[Anna Matson @AnnaRMatson]

Holy crap.

Secretary Kennedy just broke through years of big pharma propaganda in 7 minutes.

Worth the watch.

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I understand

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@NathacanaB Absolutely,!

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@data_republican I am an over packer. For many years I had a job where I traveled every week and I always packed too much. Since I was traveling in my car I had lots of room to fill with way more stuff than I needed for the week!!

[Insurrection Barbie @DefiyantlyFree]

Gratitude 😁

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@RedLineReportt @TuckerCNews No

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