When a lot of women are ready to leave a good guy but don't want to look like the villain, they will intentionally engineer the breakup. We will withdraw affection, become impossible to please, and pick exhausting fights over absolutely nothing until the man finally snaps and leaves out of pure exhaustion. Then, we immediately run to the timeline and the group chat playing the heartbroken victim who was "abandoned." We actively sabotage his peace just so we can leave the relationship with a clean public image.