I need this pattern to end:
1. Avoidant person rizzes me up
2. I reciprocate with intense affection since that’s my nature
3. They run away because they’re scared I’ll lose interest
4. My trust issues activate
5. They realize too late that they created a self-fulfilling prophecy
whenever i have a dream and a man is in it it’s always this one guy from high school that i desperately wanted to be into me because i really wanted his approval lmaooo
It's nice to be told you're beautiful or hot or whatever, but I'd love to hear some say that I make things easier, that they're happy I exist, they don't know what they'd do without me, I'm strong, and that they hope we never lose each other, that they're proud of me, that I have something to offer. Compliments don't always have to be about appearance.
Everybody should just get sweeter. Start apologizing when you know you wrong, take your time with people, and hug people more often. No crazy shit, but create the world you wanna see