@SamPric09472476 Sometimes a guys just a shy awkward guy, just like sometimes a girls a shy awkward girl.
Why do women reject the shy awkward guys 99/100 times when they know it took that guy absolutely everything he had to even consider approaching her?
@xlznpc I like to think ive grown into being objectively attractive but spent my youth being ugly and i have next to no self confidence. I can talk to women no problem if its purely platonic, but if its beyond that i become a bumbling mess, never been lucky to find a girl into that. 🤪
@JohnSmithyy97@StirlingWisdom Yes sir. Just keep being a genuinely good person for the sake of it. If a woman thinks your niceness is a turn off or just a facade, then she isnt the one for you. Or for me at least. Somehow through everything i stay at least a little optimistic that things will work out one day
@Rudyrabadywq@snuppydogg Its easy to think thats all someone complains about when thats all you see a relationship as. Very telling. Men want support, love, and, sure, sex and women laugh at them for two of those and call them disgusting for the third.
@SIGMAPROFESSOR Because women condition men to believe if they talk about sex they're a creepy weirdo and than when dudes avoid talking about sex they're weak and unconfident, and still considered a creepy weirdo because women think sex is all thats on the guys mind. Its a lose-lose.
@canustopcryingb@callingjasmine Yeah sure, my dad is an incredible and loving person. He still isnt a mom though.
Same as single mom's cant actually take the place of the father even if they can embody traits of the father.
It isnt toxic, its just how shit is.
@Boots1689@DroverSabr54018 Maybe. Ive had three women that i knew i liked immediatly, only one worked out, and everyone tells me that they didnt work out because of my attachment issues and getting attached too quickly, so idk. Im always either not decisive enough or too decisive and attached 🤷♂️
@canustopcryingb@callingjasmine Calling a single parent a shitty parent because they didnt perfectly do a job meant for two is a wild take. A father cant give his kids a mothers love, a gentle touch, or a loving reassurance the same way a woman can. That isnt a shitty parent, its someone with half the tools.
@KimariRoseVA Turns out i actually dont understand women in the slightest, even those i thought i was friends with, so idk. Dating friends isnt in my cards though, i dont even know how to be friends with a girl anymore, try to hang out and they always assume im just trying to fuck 🤷♂️
@KimariRoseVA Every person in that friend group abandoned me. Called me a creep. Second date was cancelled. Lost all those friends which was most of my friends. I thought it was playful banter between two people that had been friends for like 5 years at that point and had just gone on a date.
@Jeolaji@callingjasmine Single fathers can only do so much. My dad is an incredible person, but he's still just a person. Some of my other siblings are with their father's, and again, they're good dude's but we're all still dealing with the trauma mom leaves in her wake. The kids, and the dads.
@Buttlightyear38@callingjasmine Mental health issues are both genetic and enviornmental. Regardless, if you met my mom, it wouldnt matter if it was genetic or issues from her leaving. If you met her you would know either way she's the root cause. She's crazy crazy.
@canustopcryingb@callingjasmine I've been surviving for 33 years just fine. Thanks for being insensitive though. As if saying men and women should both raise their kids and not leave it on one or the other is somehow a bad thing?