Boredom isn't laziness. It's your mind looking for something worth its time. 78% of creative breakthroughs happen in those boring moments, not busy ones.
"Men want sex and will give you attention in exchange for it. Women want attention, and they'll give you sex in exchange for it."
Leading divorce lawyer James Sexton @nycdivorcelaw explains how romantic relationships often operate like an attention economy, where consistent emotional investment and communication, not last-minute gestures, shape intimacy and responsiveness over time.
my bro who divorced 2 weeks ago told me this:
“all of us are selective sinners. we choose the sin we are comfortable with, and judge others that commit the ones we are not comfortable with.”