Don’t become a philanthropist online while your own family is struggling offline.
Help others, but your responsibilities should not suffer because you want to impress people online.
Charity begins at home. ❤️
As you're feeding people online, I hope your family members are not hungry offline oooo. Because if you later have cancer, na your family go first care for you.
@loladee154 What you just said is a reminder for me too to keep creating value.
It's is difficult out there.
The goal is to give people a reason to stay.
Live within your means. Build your finances quietly.
Affordability is more important than appearance.
Your friends may be ahead today. That doesn’t mean you should borrow your way into their lifestyle.
This is one advice women should take seriously.
Before having many children with a man pls Watch his work ethic, responsibility, consistency and how he handles money.
Children are not a test of love, and you shouldn't keep increasing the number of dependants when the person responsible for the family has no plan to carry the responsibility.
If you know that your husband is a lazy man, or a man who is always asking you to bring "your own portion of the bill to pay", please do all you can not to have more than two children with him.
Otherwise, you'll suffer.
Because he'll eventually abandon you and the kids.
End.
@jon_d_doe don’t confuse a bank balance with financial stability. ₦1m today means little if there’s no income, savings discipline, investments, or a plan
I organised a mini-party for the people in my compound a few months ago.
I gave my landlord wine and meat.
A few days later, he sent a notice increasing the rent from ₦400k to ₦600k.
Some of my neighbours whose rent had expired packed out.
I went to see him last week.
“Sir, I’ll be leaving. I can’t afford the extra ₦200k increase, and I don’t want to owe you.”
He jokingly said, “But you just celebrated your promotion at work.”
“Yes, sir. My salary only increased by ₦70k. It’s the position I’m celebrating, not the money, sir.”
“You can stay back,” he said..
@kenkenlewu Good thing he eventually understood.
Sometimes people see your celebration and assume your finances have changed more than they actually have.
I was suspended twice in this same 2-week window. 😭😭😭
I thought the payout was gone. Then I checked… $206.87 🫣
My second highest payout.
X tried me. God still showed up. 💃
Isn’t God wonderful? To Him be the glory.
And thank you to everyone that stood with this page. 🙏❤️
@adanonso_ You don't have to agree with your partner 100% of the time. But when someone consistently shares your burdens, protects your interests, and helps you clean up the mess, their voice deserves to be heard.
Men are not fools. The little things you do as a woman that you think are not that deep, many men take very seriously.
A man may not really trust you just because of your WhatsApp settings.
Some people turn off read receipts, disappearing messages, last seen and so on.
Many men will definitely read meaning into those things.
Hope you understand?
🚨 WEEKEND HAS LANDED
If you survived Monday to Friday without borrowing money, losing your mind, or fighting with someone you love congratulations. 😂
Tonight, drop the worries.
Put your phone down for a while.
Eat something nice.
Laugh.
Rest.
Thank God for making you see another weekend. 🙏🏽
And please whatever you do this weekend, DON’T LET YOURSELF BECOME A STORY ON MONDAY. 😂
Good night, my people.
Weekend mode ACTIVATED
🩵🍿 Manchester City win their second game in a row under Maresca beating Palace!
Haaland and Cherki with a brace, two assists for Phil Foden.
Who’s been your Man of the Match? ✨
You can split yourself in two for a woman, and she will still ask, "What have you done for me?"
Your sacrifice means nothing to a woman who only sees what you have not given.
@onlyone_success That’s why you should never destroy yourself trying to prove your worth to someone who has already decided you're not enough.
Build yourself. Give from strength, not desperation.
Responsibility should be your motivation, not fear of losing someone’s affection.
When children enter the picture, priorities change.
Build yourself, provide stability, and let your actions speak for you.
The fear of failure should motivate you as a man.
Not what your wife or girlfriend does for you.
Na mostly toto she fit use console you tit for all your hardwork.
Use her toto to relieve your stress.
But continue to work hard.
Most of the time, no be only you don fuck that toto.
Even if na only you don fuck am, she still no go send you message if you continue to fail in your responsibilities.
Na you cut the ribbon, but she will invited the "guests".
Learn that what you were doing to impress your wife as your girlfriend, will most likely not matter anymore, once children start to come.
Her assessment will shift from how you take care of her to how you take care of the children that she has for you.
That will be her benchmark or your KPI.
She doesn't mind if her hair is not done, as long as the children are not hungry and as long as they have a roof over their head.
But stupid you...
Instead of you to impress your wife through this way, you're busy chasing and monitoring her to know if she's cheating on you because of your own insecurities and incapabilities.
Has toto has become more important than the children that she has for you.
Your wife can use her toto in whatever ways she likes.
And you'll never find out anything.
But how you stand up as a man will go a long way in taming her.
And then she knows that men like you are not easy to get married to.
End.
And that's how some of you foolish women became mothers and wives.
A man buys you shawarma and iPhone, and then he lives in a rented apartment with POP.
To you, this man has arrived and you decide to get pregnant for him so that he can marry you.
After wedding, you no dey see the money again.
Your mouth go just dey smell because you never chop and e don dry.
You go come dey disturb your siblings to help you.
The man don show you shege.
What you ordered for, is not what you eventually got.
End.