He is absolutely a victim, and she should have been blacklisted from Hollywood as soon as she began preying on him. They met when she was directing a movie he was in. She said she was “impressed by his professionalism” during his audition, considering his age. AKA she pulled the bullshit “you’re so mature for your age” card and began dating him once the movie was finished. From the start, there has been a clear power imbalance.
At 18, he became a stepfather to her two kids, with one of them only being 6 years younger than him when he started dating their mother. He was 20 when they had their first child, and she was 43. She is all he knows. He was 18 and was starting out in acting, while she was an established director. If the genders were reversed, there would be much more backlash and media coverage of their relationship. She preyed on a barely legal teen.
People make jokes online, but she 100% groomed him, and he is a victim who probably doesn't even realize it. It's even more tragic when children are brought into the mix. If he left her now, it would affect their four children, who aren't aware of what their mom did and why it was wrong. He's been with her for the majority of his life now. At this point, I don't think he'll ever choose to leave, but I hope he at least knows that what happened to him was not normal or okay. I also hope he will protect his children so that they are not taken advantage of like he was.
📝 Suatu hari, terjadi percakapan antara pengawas gizi dan kepala kubangan lumpur (sppg):
👩🏻💼 "Mas, liat, ini menu yang aku susun buat 2 Maret besok"
🧑🏻💻 "Ooo, ya ya yaa. Mantep mantep.. Ada apa aja itu?
👩🏻💼 "Ada sate singkong pelangi, sate telur puyuh, sama jeruk."
🧑🏻💻 "Oke.."
👩🏻💼 "Oke beneran mas?"
🧑🏻💻 "Oke kok.."
👩🏻💼 "Yaudah. Tapi ini baru buat porsi kecil mas, aku bingung buat porsi besar ditambahin apa, sedangkan budget dah mepet"
🧑🏻💻 "Oiya?"
👩🏻💼 "Iyaaa"
🧑🏻💻 "Hmm, pie yo. Yawes, porsi besar tambahi ndog puyuh sebutir lagi rak wes."
👩🏻💼 "Hah? Gitu tok?"
🧑🏻💻 "He'em. Lha pie lagi"
👩🏻💼 "Gakpapaa emange?"
🧑🏻💻 "Gakpapaaa"
👩🏻💼 "Yaudah, oke"
TAARAAAAAAAAAAA!! ✨🙂
Baca #Opini edisi Kamis, 12 Februari 2026 berjudul "Tidak Ada Makan Siang Gratis" yang ditulis oleh Adrian Nalendra, Peneliti Ekonomi GREAT Institute di sini https://t.co/amozKvfNC3. #AdadiKompas
Satu sih.
Lo baru, ga ngerti apa2.
Its not ur capacity to talk about it.
Lo bahkan ga paham culture dan hierarchy yang ada.
So fuck off.
Stop terlihat si paling tahu.
💚 cw // 🔞
Oh ya, sender cewek yaa.. beneran bukan maksud diskriminasi kaum tertentu, engga. Cuma di jaman sekarang mau lebih hati² aja cari pasangan 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻