Every time I cook for us, my boyfriend stands next to me cleaning up. By the time we sit down to eat, the kitchen is spotless, after eating he wash the dishes and I make coffee. That's what I mean when I say " a relationship should be 50/50"🥹
my therapist told me the only way to control your emotions is to show them. you can’t control sadness you never show. then your sadness turns to anger, hostility, bitterness and resentment. and you have officially created a monster.