@rooks9_rooks no one said you can’t be there for a friend. the point is that being there doesn’t mean handling a crisis that serious without professional help. that’s common sense, not lack of support.
A therapist would absolutely tell you that friends can love you, support you and still not be responsible for saving you. Framing professional boundaries as “lack of support” is dangerous. Jesy has every right to tell her truth, but so do the other girls.
Secondo alcune fonti, questo fine settimana si terrà il matrimonio di Perrie e Alex in Portogallo, JADE e Leigh-Anne saranno presenti alla cerimonia. 💍❤️
Zayn siempre fue una mierda con sus novias así que ahora él y sus fans se la bancan porque esa es la experiencia de ella y tiene todo el derecho de hablarlo cuando y donde quiera
yes, PR exists. it exists around music, books, documentaries, all of it. but there’s a huge difference between PR around a personal story and claiming Perrie is being used to sabotage Jesy. one is realistic, the other is just taking away Perrie’s voice again
The team was toxic and still guide Perrie to this day. None of this would be happening if that team hadn’t put a pr strategy in place so Jesy could be sabotaged
and to be clear, by families I don’t mean it in a evil way...they were part of the machine too. Jesy herself said in her doc that when she wanted out early on, someone in her family told her to make some money first. That pressure matters.
this is the conversation people avoid, those girls were teenagers/young women in a brutal machine and everyone around the Little Mix brand profited from it. management, the label, families, the adults in the room, that’s where the accountability should start
I am yet to hear and see Little Mix's management to take accountability for mismanaging them for 10+ years. Jesy wasn't even the biggest source of this mess. None of the girls were supported and helped the right ways. The machine they were in was fucking disgusting.
I am yet to hear and see Little Mix's management to take accountability for mismanaging them for 10+ years. Jesy wasn't even the biggest source of this mess. None of the girls were supported and helped the right ways. The machine they were in was fucking disgusting.
I don’t think people fully appreciate how much of Perrie’s personal life has been made a public spectacle over the years.
People weight-shamed her while she was secretly pregnant with a baby she lost. Rabid fans piled on her after her cheating fiancé ended their engagement by text. Her former best friend betrayed her publicly while ghosting her privately.
Perrie’s mental health and trauma matters too, and if other people get to tell her story, she has every right to tell it herself. Some of these things have been chipping away at her for over a decade and she must be exhausted. Yet even now, she’s still protecting people who hurt her by not exposing every detail.
Knowing how much scrutiny she’s suffered and how severely she struggles with anxiety, I admire the bravery it took to claim ownership of her life story.
one thing about fandoms 😭 once they put someone on a pedestal, they'll excuse behavior they'd absolutely drag anyone else for. this level of selective accountability needs to be studied.
So she was “allowed” to be hurt in 2016 but not allowed to ever mention it again? Being married with kids doesn’t erase what happened to her. Healing isn’t silence, and answering a question isn’t “rehashing” just because you don’t like the answer.
she’s allowed to crash out and air his business, which she did. back in 2016. now the conversation is redundant. i don’t see the point in rehashing out these memories, especially when your married to another man and have 2 kids, like at what point do you even heal?
Perrie answers questions about things that shaped her life and somehow it’s always “she’s using people for clout.” Zayn, Jesy, a miscarriage...apparently this woman isn’t allowed to have feelings about anything without people twisting it into something ugly
People need to understand that “her truth” means her perspective, not the absolute truth. Jesy can feel hurt and still be biased. Her pain doesn’t automatically make the other girls bullies, especially when they’ve barely been allowed to speak about their own side. Jesus
If Jesy had the right to tell her side in a whole public documentary, Perrie has the right to answer a podcast question. Pain doesn’t give one person the power to silence everyone else involved, and the girls were never responsible for carrying someone else’s entire mental health
A jesy estar passando por um momento difícil não elimina o direito das meninas falarem sobre isso. Se ela tem o direito de fazer um documentário sobre, porque a Perrie não pode responder uma pergunta no podcast?