once i beat the depression & the burnout & the anxiety and the loneliness and the exhaustion and the guilt and the awkwardness and the apathy and the chronic illness and the impatience and the vulnerability, the creative block, capitalism and the cruelty THEN you'll see
If you're a lover girl, please get yourself a lover boy and vice versa. Leave these nonchalant, low key anxious avoidant types to their own devices and flourish.