going to leave this here.
this is coming from a someone who is recognized as the most decorated freestyle skier in Olympic history, successful luxury fashion model, full-time undergraduate student at Stanford University.
@wakakawuwu Always respect what people chose to do in their life
Rightly or wrongly
Unless it directly affects us
Kita manusia akan ada terasa
Itu reaksi spontan, reaksi pertama
Tak boleh kawal
Apa yg lebih penting adalah apa respon pilihan kita setelah berlaku reaksi spontan tersebut💪
As someone who works in the banking sector. I tell u in these few days we have received lots of scam reports regarding BTS tickets. So here are a few tips for you before doing any transactions or if you are being scammed, this is what you need to do.
1. Before making any transactions, kindly check if there is any report regarding the account or phone number (duitnow) that you want to transfer at https://t.co/RZXGjwpz2q
2. If the account has no reports yet, please check how many times the account has been searched on the website. If there are too many searches, you need to take more caution. Probably like getting more information regarding the account holder.
(I suggest u guys don't transfer to TNG acc or virtual Bank account.. Just asked them the normal Bank account)
3. If you are being scammed, please make an immediate report to the National Scam Response Centre (NSRC) 📞 997 (8:00am-8:00pm every day, including public holidays), or you can also lodge a report to your respective bank's 24/7 hotline.
4. Kindly lodge a police report and give it to your respective bank for further action.
5. You are advised to do this ASAP and if possible, within 24 hours for the fast action being taken. Atleast you still got a chance to save your money before they moved it to a different account or had it withdrawn.
Bank Rakyat 24/7 hotline: 1-300-80-5454 @ fraud line 1-300-80-2273
Maybank 24/7 fraud hotline : 03-5891-4744
Cimb 24/7 hotline: 1300 888 828
Bank islam 24/7 fraud hotline: 03-26 900 900
RHB 24/7 fraud hotline: 03-92068118
Public Bank 24/7 fraud hotline: 03-2177 3555
MBSB 24/7 fraud hotline: 03 - 2083 7900
Hong Leong 24/7 hotline: 03-7626 8899
Ambank 24/7 hotline: 03-2178 8888
Muamalat 24/7 fraud hotline: +603 2615 8000
Ps:/ Hope this can help uguys. Stay alert. Kita jaga kita.
“gak semua orang mau dijadikan tempat buat bercerita”
totally agree, karena dengerin cerita orang itu bisa nguras energi banget.
makanya orang yang jadi good listener itu hebat karena mereka bisa ngedengerin tanpa rasa kepo dan menghakimi.
makanya jangan lupa apresiasi orang orang terdekat yg mau secara ikhlas dan suka rela jadi rumah untuk tempat bercerita kita
Setuju banget.
Masuk tahun ke 4 pernikahan, saya makin paham kalau "excited sendirian" itu salah satu jenis sepi yang paling melelahkan.
Di awal hubungan, jatuh cinta itu mudah karena semuanya serba baru. Tapi begitu masuk tahun-tahun penuh rutinitas, saat obrolan bergeser dari mimpi-mimpi masa depan ke urusan kebutuhan bulanan, dan kelelahan kerja, di situlah kesetaraan itu diuji.
Cinta yang setara di fase ini soal hal-hal kecil yang manusiawi.
Soal bagaimana dia tetap meletakkan ponselnya dan mendengarkan ceritamu yang itu-itu lagi dengan binar mata yang sama.
Soal bagaimana kamu tetap ingin menyeduh kopi kesukaannya tanpa perlu dia minta.
Soal perasaan lega yang muncul saat pintu rumah terbuka, karena kamu tau, kamu pulang ke seseorang yang juga menganggapmu tempat pulangnya.
Menikah itu melelahkan kalo cuma satu orang yang sibuk merawat api, sementara yang lain cuma numpang menghangatkan badan.
Hubungan bisa bertahan dewasa karena dua orang sama-sama keras kepala untuk menolak bosan, dan memilih untuk tetap jatuh cinta setiap hari, sekecil apa pun caranya.
Biar lelahnya hidup ini, setidaknya, kita tanggung berdua dengan porsi yang sama adilnya.
i used to think one of my friends was just “bad at texting.”
you know the type.
disappears for days.
replies three business weeks later with:
“sorry dude things got hectic”
constantly cancelling plans last minute.
always exhausted.
always “busy.”
after a while i stopped inviting him places as much because honestly it started feeling personal.
then one night he randomly showed up at my apartment at like 11 PM holding a plastic grocery bag full of medicine.
i said:
“are you sick??”
he goes:
“nah my dad is.”
turns out for almost a year he’d been driving back and forth helping take care of him while also working full time and trying to act normal around everybody.
and the part that messed me up was this:
he genuinely thought he was hiding it well.
like halfway through talking he actually apologized for “being weird lately.”
meanwhile this guy was surviving on four hours of sleep and stress-eating gas station food in hospital parking lots.
i think about that a lot now whenever someone suddenly starts seeming distant.
because sometimes people aren’t pulling away from you personally.
sometimes they’re just trying to survive something they don’t even know how to explain yet.
According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.
Saw this BNM warning poster at a bank branch this week.
"Jangan terima wang kertas berdakwat. Wang kertas berdakwat mungkin telah dicuri."
Translation: don't accept ink-stained notes, they may have been stolen.
I always thought stained notes were just someone smearing ink on the notes or some printing defect. Turns out it is anti-theft technology built right into the ATM.
BNM uses ink-stained technology (https://t.co/MIVFuhiwdS). Dye packs are placed inside the cash bundles in ATMs and cash-in-transit bags.
If someone tampers with the machine or the bag, the pack activates and releases indelible ink that stains every note in the bundle.
BNM formalised the guideline in August 2020, asking financial institutions and cash-in-transit companies to deploy as a deterrent against ATM robberies. The ink is reportedly non-toxic to humans.
Here is the clever part.
Cash deposit machines are programmed to detect and reject stained notes. Bank branches are instructed not to accept them either. Anyone trying to deposit one may be tracked down for questioning.
The note is functionally worthless the moment it is stained. You cannot spend it, deposit it, or exchange it without potentially being investigated.
The deeper logic is elegant. The thief can still break the ATM open. But the cash inside becomes useless the second they touch it.
The robbery is no longer worth attempting.
Time to check your wallet if you have any such bank notes.
According to psychology people who grew up in families where no one actually apologized for disagreements, and would just let time pass instead of actually resolving things, often become conflict-avoidant, fearing confrontation or the expression of negative emotions, poor communicators, lacking the skills to effectively resolve issues or express their needs and feelings.
a mistake that cost me 5 years: thinking preparation was progress. reading every book. taking every course. planning every detail. meanwhile, someone dumber than me started badly and figured it out. preparation feels productive but it's often just fear dressed up as strategy. you learn to swim by getting in the water, not by studying water.
you don’t realize how much your environment affects your mental state until you finally spend time somewhere that feels calm and your body stops feeling tense for once
Give yourself an easy little project. Doesn’t matter how small it is. It just needs to be something that requires some thinking.
It can even as minor as reorganizing all your app icons or going through your kitchen and throwing away all the expired food. Just do something.
Partially fair sebab kalau kau sebagai isteri kena sepak terajang, kena ugut bunuh, suami tak bagi nafkah zahir dan batin, suami curang dan simpan betina lain, suami culas dalam melaksanakan tanggungjawab, kau tahu apa yang Pej Agama suruh buat?
Pergi kaunseling.
Have you noticed how IU apologized for Perfect Crown coz it's South Korea that is insulted, but no one apologized from Genie Make A Wish for the depiction of Islamic figures and themes and When The Phone rings for their Zionist narrative?
Ini pemikiran yg menarik tentang gimana kebiasaan buruk bisa bikin masa depan kita suram.
Intinya dia bilang:
Waktu umur 22, ngabisin 3 jam buat scroll di media sosial keliatannya sepele. Tapi pas udah 28, tiba2 jadi susah fokus baca artikel karena mesti ngecek handphone tiap paragraf.
Terus pas udah 32, kamu mulai bingung kenapa proyek yang diimpikan ga pernah kelar. Masih punya impian, tapi seolah ga ada waktu buat mulai.
Dan di umur 40, kita ga bisa menyelesaikan 1 buku satu pun.
Kebiasaan kaya gini emg harus dihilangkan dari sekarang, karena waktu ga akan bisa kembali.
Setuju ga?
Adat Melayu yang perlu ditolak adalah adat yang khurafat dan menyusahkan. Adapun adat yang baik, kita teruskan.
Melayu memang dikenali dengan ketinggian adab, berbudi pekerti. Maka kekalkanlah identiti ini.
Mudah kata, jangan poyo. Jangan ada rasa diri lebih baik dari orang lain walaupun kita lebih berharta atau lebih berpelajaran.
Nama kucing korang:
hari ni -Ricky 🐱
esok -Kassim 😹
lusa entah jadi apa pula ek
Tapi nama anak… 😳
bukan boleh tukar ikut mood tau
Pindaan boleh dibuat sebelum anak berusia 1 tahun je ok!
So sebelum letak nama tu…
fikir manjah-manjah dulu!
Masalah orang Malaysia. Tak pandai susur.
Macam mana kau boleh dapat lesen?
S.U.S.U.R.
Bukan masuk terus lorong 2, lorong tiga.
Bahasa kafirnya, merging. Bukan pancung. Bagi laluan jalan utama. Dah selamat baru masuk menyusur.
Jalan utama pun satu, selang seli.