i love it when someone says things like, 'would've been more fun if you were here,' or, 'i wish you were here so we could do this and that.' it shows that you kind of matter to them to a certain degree, that your existence matters. and what’s more subtle yet beautiful than that?
kehilangan respect sama seseorang itu bener-bener the ultimate turning point. once they do or say something wrong, everything changes instantly. uniknya, di fase ini tuh kita gak marah atau dendam sama sekali, we just silently distant ourselves. tapi ya gitu, the trust is gone, the connection is broken, dan mau dicoba kayak gimana pun, you just cannot look at them the same way again.