i want somebody who WANTS to go out with me and WANTS to spend time with me and WANTS to go adventuring and WANTS to listen to me talk about my day and ENJOYS who i am and who i want to be and i'll be the exact same way for them. that's what i want right now
random non-intimate things i find intimate:
- fixing your hair when it’s out of place
- tying your undone shoe laces
- when they smile at you across the room
- sharing a drink
- “you smell good”
- ordering different things but sharing half with each other
- watching each other’s favorite shows/movies
I honestly cannot overemphasize this but please start living & enjoying your life. Your life is passing by daily and all you’re doing is working, paying bills, & overthinking stuff you can't change. Start taking trips and treating yourself. Have fun with this life. You only get 1
“you hate men”
no i don’t, i hate abusive men, manipulative men, entitled men, controlling men, dismissive men, rageful men, cheating men, lying men, gaslighting men, boundary-violating men, emotionally unavailable men, exploitative men, disrespectful men, insecure men who punish others for it, men who think accountability is an attack
and good men know the difference right?