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Iām not doing the back and forth stuff bro, this is all iāve got to say: someone can be wrong and still deserve to be left tf alone by people who are not directly involved or affected by a situation and donāt actually know them at all. Being publicly demonized for way too long is doing too much.
i actually donāt care how wrong malia is for what she did, everyone has a limit, she clearly reached hers. She has every right to move forward in whatever way she needs to
It was only a matter of time.
I genuinely think setting boundaries was the right decision. Looking back, I donāt think peace was ever really possible while so much public negativity surrounded the situation. I believe the people closest to you should help you heal, hold you accountable, and bring out the best in you⦠not keep a painful chapter aliveā¦
From what Iāve seen publicly, it felt like some of the people around one side were posting and interacting in ways that came across as disrespectful toward the other person. Thatās something I never agreed with. I can understand being deeply hurt after a 4 year friendship ends, but I donāt think friends or family should be escalating a conflict that isnāt theirsā¦
That said, none of this excuses anyoneās own actions. The people around you can influence you, but youāre still responsible for the choices you make. Accountability matters, just as much as growth.
If thereās one thing this whole situation has shown me, itās that the people around you MATTER. If you ever want to truly heal or even find peace with a broken friendship⦠you have to look at the environment around you. I understand leaning on the friends whoāve always been there, but just because someone has known you the longest doesnāt automatically mean they have your best interests at heart. Sometimes whatās familiar isnāt whatās healthiestā¦
I truly hope this is the beginning of both of them moving forward. Healing doesnāt have to mean reconciliation⦠it means choosing peace, growth, and leaving the hurt behindā¦
@sugrrrtalkin@cantrallsdiary@missr3dbird as a fan of both so much⦠people be caring wayyy too much like the way we only know this happened because someone was actively checking their followers on every platform š¤£š¤£
@cantrallsdiary i hate to speculate and it really is none of our business but from an outsider pov it makes it seem like something happened between them yesterday, like they got into it again privately and now itās public (again)
@iamoceanlia some people would love to argue she isnāt but we all know she is and probably (we donāt know for sure but itās perception of it that doesnāt help her case) encourages them to post what they do or just has no issue with it. Crossing the line.
iāll just say this: Malia has been put through the wringer by the internet, kylieās friends and to an extent kylie herself. I love kylie down and I love malia too, i will always support them both but I wonāt sit here and act like Kylie isnāt wrong at all.
i obviously donāt know either of them and can only speak for myself and what it looks like from an outsider pov but (i say this with love) i feel like kylie is allowing in her emotions to get the better of her in some ways and so sheās allowing her friends to dtm and not checking them (and sometimes participating) when really the public side of things should be put to bed now. (i fully believe it shouldāve stayed private to begin with.)
@1lovecurlyheads theyāre both wrong asf for dating that loser to begin with but yes unfortunately at this point kylie not even attempting to check her friends (who everyone agrees) are doing tm is⦠definitely a choice. It gets to a point.
@iamoceanlia by allowing her friends to do too much and sometimes participating (being in the videos they post that are shady) and just overall sometimes feeding into things. i just think itās time to put the public side of things to bed.
exactly. They were both wrong in that sense and as much as iām a fan of kylie atp she is the one person that can kind of take control of the situation and put as much of an end to the scrutiny that theyāve BOTH been faced with as she can. itās played out in the public long enough.
because when the harm being done can be seen by everyone else and itās very obvious that things have gone over the line, at that point self reflection is a must and self awareness of oneās actions are essential. (this also applies when the harm being done isnāt publicly visible.)
HOWEVER, the reaction someone has to the way something made them feel IS their responsibility to manage and they should conduct themselves in a way that wonāt actively harm another person even if theyāre not on good terms with that person anymore.