Being able to call and depend on a man is a flex. I mean yes I can absolutely handle things on my own but just knowing my life is a little easier because I'm supported and someone always has my back is top tier to me🥺
i think it's unappealing when someone can sexualize me and offer me sex all day, but can't actually be there for me mentally and offer an emotional safe space. it's giving me leech/parasite type energy.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence.. The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Do not ignore me. You can tell me you don't want to talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case may be.
Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.