Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure you’ve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things… that’s romance to me.
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity
🍵!!! NEVER put my trust in a ngga... not even when he right next to me. Cause these nggas will be laid up in your face whole time texting another btch like it's NOTHING. What really be getting me is when a ngga swear he hate hos and liars... whole time he BOTH.
Make it make sense
My intuition is SO crazy. I can literally have no evidence of what's going on but still know there's something going on behind my back & I'm always right😭
Get you a MAN that love you enough to care about how his actions gone effect your feelings and stop settling for these grown ass BOYS that think you supposed to love them thru all the bs they taking you thru. A real MAN knows his woman happiness is key to a happy relationship
I won't marry a man who chooses silence after a fight and leaves me alone with overthinking. I won't choose someone who walks away when things get hard instead of staying to fix what was broken. I need a man who listens even when it's uncomfortable, who cares enough to ask if I'm okay, and who makes me feel safe enough to open my heart without fear. I know I deserve a love that stays through storms, not a love that disappears when things get heavy.
if you broke my trust & i loved you enough to let you back in & allow you to rebuild my trust again...only for you to leave me hanging & call me crazy for wanting reassurance and maybe a lil extra effort to gain back the security you took away... you're the worst type of person.
one of the worst feelings is realizing you became emotionally exhausted trying to keep a connection alive while the other person was simply enjoying the comfort of being cared for