That’s also why I gravitate towards men with difficult demanding jobs. I need you used to problem solving and high pressure situations. How tf you gone lead a family and you whining in my face
I really want everyone to find people and spaces where they're cared for deeply. Not merely performative gestures and speeches for social media, but genuine friendship, companionship, and love that doesn't require you to do anything but be authentic and grow.
people do not want to be around the person that’s always in a rough patch, sometimes the patch is a little easier but it’s never really smooth sailing. You learn to just say you’re ok so you don’t lose out on friendship & other relationships.
Scottie Beam’s last IG reel is how I’ve felt since I was around 13 yrs old. I learned very early that some of us are just dealt a worse deck of cards than others & being the person that legit is always going through something is not relatable.
Discipline & Morals are my key driving factors of relationship building as an adult. I’m only interested in surrounding myself with people who carry a strong moral compass & diligent in the way they live their life.