girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.
˗ˏˋ ♡ ˎˊ˗ taurus, leo, scorpio, aquarius (s, m, r)
— BLESSINGS COMING! 🧡
socially, you’re gonna find yourself in rooms you didn’t think you’d fit in, and instead of shrinking, you’ll realize people actually value your voice, so stop ghosting good connections out of habit.
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Once I was tryna fw this girl and found out she was MARRIED so then she told me that her and her husband were looking for a third and ngl I was going. They look good. So guess who became their girlfriend? MEEEEEEEE. I felt so domesticated and like a pet after the first link
peak female experiences :
1. realizing u can wear whatever you want
2. becoming besties with your sister
3. friendships start turning 10+ years old
4. accepting your body
5. finally understanding your mother
6. de-centering men
7. developing a ferocious sense of self-love
God is so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so good!
We either meet in the middle or nowhere. & NO, this isn’t about distance. It’s about overextending & never being extended for. I am so many people’s friends & that’s usually where it ends.
I had to stop being the out there girl, the overextended me, the going out of my way to see YOU version. When I realized nobody comes to me, goes out of their way to engage in MY life, I relaxed a lot on friends & acquaintances. I will not travel to you.
just to name a few. Healing isn’t linear baby you will have days when you’re starting from scratch & days where everything is already figured out. I’m giving myself grace, regardless!
Suffering from overindulgence. I been sober close to a year 💜 It’s not always drugs. It shows up in where we aren’t. Sometimes it becomes the unhealthy eating, occasional black out drinking, quick guilty pleasures from the deli, “I’ll take the bus” instead of walking,