As a parent I’d NEVERRRRR tell my kids “I’m not coming to get you” or “find you a way home” IDC IDC.. Rain, snow, hail. 3pm or 3am, I’m coming for mine! PERIOD!!
Adult friendships are hard. Everyone’s busy & life happens. But you gotta let people know when you’re thinking about them. A simple “thinking of you, hope all is well” really goes a long way.