Nothing will ruin a friendship faster than watching your friend showing up for other people in a way they don’t show up for you. You have the capacity, just not for our friendship.
I need the neurodivergent girls here specifically
Have you ever felt like people loved your energy, the way you think and how you made them feel, but not what it actually took to love you?
A surprising number of neurodivergent adults have lived in a near-constant state of low-grade existential overwhelm since childhood without ever realising that other people do not experience life this way.
My least favorite horror movie is the fact that young boys are so easily influenced by the outside environment. A mother could spend years teaching her little kid to be a sweet boy,and just him going to school,meeting a boy who harbors toxic ideas can change him completely
The older I get the more I realize a lot of adults DON’T better themselves ?? and have no intention of growth or healing ?? just living their lives with horribłe communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings like FOREVER??????
The wild thing about being autistic is how you get called names like "gullible" and "naive" for believing people meanwhile, why are so many allotypical/allistic/neurotypical people fake ass, superficial liars? Why isn't that the problem?
in the end, the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top. Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, and consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
One of the loneliest neurodivergent experiences is being intellectually capable of understanding almost everything that’s happening around you… while simultaneously struggling to participate in it the way other people seem to.
Men will look at your breasts, butt, legs, past, waist, height and even your skin colour.
But BE CAREFUL: don't look at his wallet, otherwise you're a gold digger..
Movies like The Chronicles of Narnia and Pirates of the Caribbean still hold up as some of the best cgi in the industry compared to any modern day “live action” slop and I mourn the soul and creativity movies used to be filled with instead of just pathetic cash grabs 💔
Being constantly misunderstood changes the way you remember yourself.
After enough years...
You stop seeing yourself through your own experiences.
You start seeing yourself through other people's criticism.
If you keep having to tell someone the same exact thing about how you feel and nothing ever changes, pay attention to that. It isn’t because they don’t understand you. They heard you the first time. They just got comfortable knowing they could keep doing it and you’d still be there. At some point you gotta accept that no change is your answer, and move on with your life.