But isn’t desire always the same whether the object is present or absent? Isn’t the object always absent?—This in’t the same languor: there are two words: Pothos, desire for the absent being, and Himéros, the more burning desire for the present being.
Barthes
A Lover’s Discourse
"To "be" queer, after all, is not to be, except as a catachresis of the Swiftian "Thing which is not". Queerness is the limit of ontology, the exclusion containing the negativity—the no, the not—that generates being: the rupture, itself libidinally charged..."
— Lee Edelman
Compassion can be a touchy subject, touching as does, on what touches the heart by seeming to put us in touch with something other than ourselves, while leaving us open, in the process, to being read as ab easy touch.
—Lee Edelman, No Future
No dread. No bitterness. The end beginning. Today's
Dusk room aglow
For the last time
With candleight.
Face love-lit
Gifts underfoot.
—James Merrill, "Christmas Tree"
Fuck the social order and the figural children paraded before us as its terroristic emblem... fuck Laws both with capital 'l's and with small; fuck the whole network of symbolic relations and the future that serves as its prop.
-Lee Edelman, No Future