22 y/o. English & Politics Student. he/him ✍🏻Aspiring Writer.
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@fatfabfeminist It’s often the case that those people would also feel those feelings in mono relationships because of inherent abandonment issues or other relationship trauma. It’s obv triggered more in a poly dynamic but you’d have to overcome those issues either way (personal experience)
@fatfabfeminist I wish people in all kinds of relationships could share their feelings and challenges without people making it out to be an inherent poly problem, yk :3
@fatfabfeminist / one still has the choice to enter a relationship and form it as they may. All I’m saying is: I know how easy it is to condemn polyamory. I’ve done it a hundred times. It can be fucking hard. But you either decide it’s worth it or not. And people will do that. Eventually.
@fatfabfeminist the authenticity and beauty of the love that is being shared in those relationships. And lastly - I know it’s not consensus but how I understood is from my partner is that being poly is similar to sexual orientation - not so much a lifestyle choice as you’d think. Obviously /
I came back from London today and I always look and feel like an absolut rat after flying, I’m so glad I’m not famous because if anyone ever asked for a pic in the airport I’d just run away lol