I’m very heavy on reciprocation. you reach out, I reach out. you’re distant, I’m distant. you check on me, I check on you. you’re inconsistent with me, so am i. you spoil me, i spoil you. I will not overplay my part. I deal with people exactly how they deal with me.
When the disappointment is that heavy, you don't even get mad at the person anymore. You get mad at yourself for ignoring your instincts when the red flags were practically screaming.