Take it from a psychiatrist:
Therapy ๐๐ฝ does ๐๐ฝ not ๐๐ฝ fix ๐๐ฝ systemic ๐๐ฝ injuries ๐๐ฝ to ๐๐ฝour ๐๐ฝ mental ๐๐ฝ health๐๐ฝ.
I think parents to-be should be aware and expectant that their kid will probably be an average nobody just based off the census. The only big hopes should be "happy person" and even that's too much to expect these days.
I don't like interrupting people when they're re-telling me things or explaing things I already know because I was raised to deem that impolite but it usually just ends in them thinking I'm dumber than I am. Which is starting to get annoying.