If I die a sudden death, please don’t dwell on how much of a shock it is, kullu nafsin za’ikatul maut. Rather make dua for me, forgive me, ask for jannah for me, pray for ease for my family, ask Allah to have mercy on me. This is how you can prove your love for me.
You don’t shake opposite sex
You pray 5 times a day
You pray at the appointed time no matter what
You can’t go to clubs and concerts
What do you mean you don’t listen to music?
You won’t get me birthday gifts?
How can you even say you can’t work in financial institutions cos of riba, insurance companies and breweries? You don’t even have connection.
You don’t bet too?
Let me stop here for now.
When you truly love someone, you have to learn the art of waiting. Love is not about rushing, demanding, or forcing things to fall into place. Sometimes the person you love needs time to heal, to grow, or to simply find their way back to themselves. And if your love is real, you'll give them that space without making them feel guilty for it. Waiting doesn't mean putting your life on hold, it means keeping faith in a bond that is strong enough to survive distance, silence, and time. The love that is meant for you will never be lost, it will return when both hearts are ready.
I received an inheritance of almost ₦35 million in cash from my late father. My husband knew about the entire process, so when the money came, he sat me down and asked what I planned to do with it.
I told him I wanted to buy land, buy a car, register for my master's degree, and invest the rest in my business.
People saying women should marry just any man because time is going are crazy. I’ll always tell women to take their time before getting married. As scary as marriage can seem these days, no woman should settle for someone she isn’t mentally, emotionally, and physically attracted to or genuinely at peace with.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, not a race. Take your time, choose wisely, and don’t settle for less just because society says you should.