Samaly Rabiatu Dove

Co-founder of Ladies' Hangout Initiative@ladieshangoutinitiative...

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

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[Beyza @hicasamadim]

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[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@hicasamadim 72

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@jon_d_doe I’m not married to a yahoo boy but this logic to me is faulty cause women who are married to politicians aren’t yet suffering for the consequences of their misdeeds

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

So when y’all are saying Nigerians aren’t doin anything, what exactly can we do? Aren’t you part of the Nigerians! We talk! We post ! We cry… nothing is being done!

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

The thing is
The Christain body is silent
We aren’t getting used to it, we’re scared
We’re trying to survive
All in the same breath
Poverty and insecurity increasing at the same time
There’s a reason
Those countries going through insurgency
The residence are poor

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

Close your mouth when they are talking about single mothers or women who gave birth out of wedlock (men and women alike)

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

The difference between Amarachi that gave birth at age 17-20 and Onyeka that gave birth or married before childbirth at age 23-30 is not decency is abortion or infertility with the exception of abstinence, so if you didn’t abstain from sex till after wedding night!

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

I worked 20 years for a child sex trafficking rescue group. I want you to know this:

90% of Lost Children Are Found Within 30 Minutes.

That statistic should both comfort you and wake you up.

Most lost children are found quickly. But the ones who aren’t? They usually made one mistake.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth:

It’s often the exact thing most parents teach them.

We tell our kids:

“If you get lost, come find me.”

It sounds logical. It sounds empowering.

It’s WRONG!

The Mistake Most Lost Children Make:

When children realize they’re separated, they do three things almost automatically:

They panic.
They wander.
They try to find you.

Every step makes them harder to locate.

From a search standpoint, movement creates chaos.

Parents retrace their steps.
Security scans zones.
Staff lock down areas.

Search works best when movement stops.

When a child keeps walking, they move outside the original search radius. Helpers are looking where they were last seen — not where they’ve wandered.

Stillness increases probability.

Movement expands the problem.

The first lesson is not “go find me.”

It’s this:

Stop. Stay. Yell.

Why Stillness Wins:

Think like a search team.

If a child stays put:

Parents can retrace steps.
Security can scan systematically.
Helpers converge to one fixed location.
The search radius remains small.
If a child keeps moving:

The search area expands.
Adults pass each other.
Missed connections multiply.
Minutes stretch into hours.
Stillness keeps the math on your side.

Teach Them Who to Approach:

The second mistake we make as parents?

We say, “Find an adult.”

Not any adult. Not the nearest stranger. Children need a filter.

Teach them to look for, if at all possible:

A mother with children.

Caregivers who already have kids with them are statistically among the safest people to approach in public settings. They are visible, stationary, and more likely to engage quickly.

It’s a clear, concrete instruction.

Children don’t process vague categories like “safe adult.”

They process visuals.

“Find a mom with kids” is visual.

A Phone Only Helps If the Number Is Known:

We often assume phones solve everything.

They don’t — unless your child can use one. Even young children can memorize a 10-digit phone number with repetition.

But you must train it.

Practice it like a song.

Sing it in the car.
Chant it at bedtime.
Turn it into rhythm.

Repetition becomes recall.

In an emergency, recall matters more than theory.

The Code Word Rule:

One more layer of protection.

Choose a private family code word.

Something only your household knows.

If someone approaches and says:

“Your mom sent me.”

Your child asks:

“What’s the code word?”

No word.
No go.

This simple rule eliminates manipulation attempts instantly.

It gives your child agency without requiring them to evaluate character.

Real Safety Is Training — Not Luck!

We don’t get safer by hoping.

We get safer by practicing.

Teach:

• Phone number
• Code word
• Stop, stay, yell
• Find a mom with kids

Multiple skills.
Simple instructions.
Clear visuals.

Five minutes of training can replace hours of panic. This isn’t about fear. It’s about preparation.

Because when a child gets separated, the clock starts.

And what they do in the first minute determines what the next thirty look like.

That’s real protection.

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

is worth more than the money you’d use to replace whatever he’s destroying ?

Me: 🤚🏾

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

Mothers: Raise your hands, if you’ve seen your child destroying something and you had to choose between letting the child spoil it or the child disrupting the little peace you have with him being distracted
And you chose to turn a blind eye because the relief for that 3 minutes

[FIFI🌟 @fifss__]

Using only one Word, Describe how your 2026 will be.

Me : WEALTHY.

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@kiwiasfi Wheel of time

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@kiwiasfi Shadow and bones

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@RealKiddWaya By this time next year I want to earn in millions monthly I want a new car

[Big T. @LOluwatodimu]

Mummy twins one day, very soon.

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@Skolex5 Lock in

[Mojisola Alegbe @yehhmisi]

I want to be able to randomly credit the people I love... I'm tired of just saying "I love you".

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

Dusting off my digital book and pen, I’m back

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@societyhatesjay Na God naim go punish you sha

[Samaly Rabiatu Dove @rabiatu__]

@PiggyBankNG the money I sent to my account for 3 days isn’t reflecting on the app o