my brother’s child was born four months ago, and for a few weeks, my sister in law struggled with postpartum depression,my brother created a meal plan for her to ensure she was eating and drinking properly,he always kept track of her meals, medication, and sleep schedule,he constantly sought information on how to maintain her health while she was breastfeeding. He styled her hair and prepared smoothies and milkshakes for her,he did it all; he made her care his priority...and that is exactly how a husband should be.
fun fact about me: if you ever write me a letter or leave me a little note, I’ll probably keep it for the rest of my life. I’m ridiculously sentimental like that small words mean more to me than people realize.
When you cut someone out of your life, don't expect them to tell the WHOLE story. They'll highlight whatever makes you look like the villain while leaving out everything that made them look guilty
I really think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind !
Not even physically tired !
Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed !
That kind of tired is different😮💨!
Thank you feminism. Because of you , I can get education, own property, have cards, wear whatever i want, reject marriages or motherhood, use internet, hire people to assist me, and many more…
Would you still want your dream life if nobody could see it? No social media, nobody knows what car you drive, how much money you make, the house that you live in, nobody sees where you’re traveling. Would you still want that exact life?
the difference between a selfish partner and a mature one is simple:
an immature guy sees a woman's kindness as a free service to exploit.
a mature man sees her effort, recognizes the time and energy it took to pull off, and immediately moves to match it.
don't stay with men who turn your generosity into an unpaid routine.