Being a woman dealing with serious health issues often means being afraid of telling the truth about the pain you’re in because you’re afraid of not being believed or seeming attention seeking. He validated that fear to thousands of women.
Who cares he gave a bad review? I care that a pay for clicks reaction YouTuber can facade as a pro critic and say it’s “main character syndrome” for an artist to lament her medical suffering on an album (surprise!) about her own life. He’s a raised-by-4chan edgelord bully. Yuck.
im never letting yall forget when his “criticism” of a woman’s album boiled down to accusing her of having “main character syndrome” and “self victimizing” meanwhile the album was abt surviving, facing cancer, and carrying the weight of becoming a mother “finally”
I had a really rough year & i randomly told my boyfriend that “I felt like my entire being had been shattered in to terracotta pieces at my feet” For my birthday he bought a terracotta plate, broke it in to many pieces, then had all the people I love something they love about me on each of the pieces, then glued it back together again. It was the most seen, heard, & loved I've ever felt in my whole life
I want to say something:
I am so happy in my relationship. And you can be too ladies. I NEVER thought someone like my boyfriend existed but I held out hope because my father was an AMAZING man and I told myself “if my DAD exists, then I KNOW there are other men like him out there.”
I held onto that through 8.5 consecutive years of celibacy. My boyfriend is my first boyfriend ever. Im 33. He cooks for me every day. He bought a dehumidifier this week cause he heard me coughing from the dry air in my sleep (I didnt know Im not used to the climate here). He uplifts me. He supports everything I do. He remembers my doctors appointments better than me. He fixes things around my mother’s home. He would lasso the moon and bring it to me if I asked him.
I say this because you dont have to be with someone who tears you down. He doesnt have to be beating you to be abusing you. Those little cuts matter. And they slowly kill your soul.
Be FIRM in your desires. Pray. Find yourself. And he will appear.