I’ve gotten to the place where it doesn’t take a catastrophic event for me to decide i don’t want you in my life. not liking the way i feel when i engage with you is more than enough.
I’m so happy I’ve outgrown the need to rekindle relationships, platonic or romantic. You said this? You did that? Okay! We never need to speak again. Life’s too short not to find comfort in endings.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
You can literally feel in your soul when it’s TIME .. time to move on from people, time to make a change in your life, time to get rid of unhealthy habits, time to want MORE for yourself. At some point you’ll just know..
I lost respect for a lot of people this year. Not because they changed, but because I finally saw them for who they really are. I learned that actions speak louder than words.
at this age i can’t associate with anyone who lacks integrity or accountability. i give grace because nobody is perfect, but a lack of principles is something i will never overlook.