I heard a woman on TikTok say last night “I wish we had more lesbian elders but the women in their 70s and 80s are TERFs” and it bothered me deeply. How dare you disregard the women who built our community from the ground up, who faced so much worse than we do in 2026 America
it is honestly terrifying to be a lesbian right now and see daily posts about how lesbians “can” have sex with men. people on here love to say that things are “signs of rising conservatism” etc. but are nowhere to be seen when conversations denying our sexuality pop up every day
straight men: orgasm
gay men: orgasm
lesbians: orgasm
straight women: honestly it’s no big deal i’m just here for the cuddles i don’t mind it’s okay that i don’t orgasm sex is sex 😭❤️ we’re all trying our best it’s not his fault
nobody will actually make me hate the term "gold star lesbian" because irl everyone even in our own community asks if you ever fucked a man and if you say no people get SURPRISED and that is so weird
It’s great how we’re reducing TERFism to “vibes” now. It’s amazing how any feminist who makes the mistake of actually having feminist views apart from liberal choice “feminism” gets called a TERF and gets dogpiled. We totally don’t notice how anti-feminist the queer community is.
@renelalauren Can we throw in too when these supposed lesbians say they're sad they can never impregnate a woman and stuff like that? It's the culmination of repulsion to me. Pure heterosexism. Lesbians are blessed with the best sex and still degrade it by comparing themselves to men...
my input on the porn debate right now is that i’m terrified that so many people have no issue with the fact that they have no way of knowing if the people on screen are being raped, abused, or consented to the video being shared. the porn industry is obviously evil but yall dont
@doryreads@Aameridoll Saying your choices will lead to harm is not denying autonomy. There are countries/states where abortion rights are constrained or nonexistent but other women online telling you that there are bad choices are denying you autonomy.