Years ago I'd say "let them vent, they're victims" but as I learn more, they're also enablers, content is propaganda, always "resent your boyfriend (but stay with him)" but never "leave your boyfriend".
On its core its teaching women to suck it up and just accept mistreatment.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky A man raping is also worse than a woman defending said rapist. It simply doesn’t pose the same danger. You think men and women are the same level of misogynistic and I disagree.I see the things men say on here every single day and they’re nowhere near comparable to what women say
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Men and women are not misogynistic in the same way simply because most women are heterosexual. Men view women as inherently different because they’re not women and because they want sex and children with them, thus resulting in most men reducing women to those things.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky This conversation is going nowhere I’m afraid. Even if we argue that all women are also misogynistic to some degree, the danger is not the same and that’s a statistical fact. Either way, I will always criticize women who willingly submit to the patriarchy and refuse to change.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Okay, but a man raping is worse than a woman giving any opinion about it, no matter how nefarious. The man committed the act, not the woman.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky I never said women were innocent. I absolutely know they’re not, and I fully agree that the oppressor would’ve never gotten this far if many women were not accomplices in their oppression. That still doesn’t make them just as dangerous as men though.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky And I can give examples of the opposite happening in my life where women have stood up and supported other women. Anecdotes are not general truths. Back then, most women would’ve reacted this way, but today women are more enlightened than ever before.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky I’m sorry that happened to you, but that personal experience does not change the statistics. Men are the ones who overwhelmingly rape and murder - not women - making women objectively safer than men to be around. Surrogacy too is very rare and is condemned by MANY women.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Again, it’s because it’s not the same kind of misogyny!! I don’t have to be scared for my life around another woman!! And believe it or not, there are women who support other women no matter what and don’t put a man above them, even if rare.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky I agree that patriarchy is ingrained in us all, but again, it’s much more likely that you’ll find a woman who is 0% misogynistic than a man who is 0% misogynistic. Either way, men are generally MORE misogynistic than women.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Yes, and I stand by that. Most men are absolutely misogynistic to some degree. We can argue that most women are too, but I was addressing a straight woman who wants to sleep with men, not a lesbian woman who thinks no woman is a misogynist and that she’s completely safe.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Well yes, but again, I’m not scared to be raped or murdered by another woman, nor am I scared to be reduced to a sex object or incubator by another woman. Female and male misogyny are just different. Of course, both are horrible.
@em0whor33@cran3snth3sky Still, I made the point that it makes no sense for women to sleep with misogynistic men. Of course, the same goes for sleeping with misogynistic women if you’re into them, but the original post was about men specifically.