You disrespect yourself every time you let something slide that doesn’t sit right with you so I’ve buckled down on my boundaries as a form of self love. My time is valuable, my feelings are valid. those who love me will respect it. I desire nothing more and will take nothing less
once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.