Be with someone who thinks everything about you is a big deal. Your birthday. Your favorite food. Your favorite holiday. How you like your coffee. What makes you happy. Just you in general. A big deal.
Astaghfirullah for every moment my heart forgot to be grateful. The blessings we overlook are the very things someone else is begging Allah for. Even in our lowest moments, His mercy surrounds us giving us far more to be thankful for than to despair over.