When someone lets you see them at their lowest, their most confused, their most afraid, that’s not a burden. That’s an honor. They looked at all the people in their life and decided you were safe. Don’t forget that.
You might not realize it now, but one day the things that hurt you the most will change your standards forever. Pain has a way of showing you what you will never tolerate again.
Some parents have a hard time respecting the boundaries you set as an adult, because they never respected your boundaries as a child. They push and you have to push back.
I will CRY&cry over a person that I WILLINGLY CUT OFF but I will never settle for confusion & uncertainty. If I’m not being prioritized why would i stick around&hurt myself more expecting someone to care about me the way I care for them when it’s clearly not in their character🤷🏽♀️
When you start writing paragraphs of how you want to be treated… You need to remember that men move mountains for the women they love.
Delete that paragraph sis.
I love a man that's into me. Like can't
keep his hands off me, can't wait to
talk to me, wants to take me places,
buy me gifts, Kiss on me, cuddle,
plan dates, & do crazy fun
spontaneous shit
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
"you're single, you can date as many people as you want"
nah I'm good. I want something real. I don't let temporary people touch my mind, body or soul. no random hookups, no empty conversations. I'd rather be alone than deal with false hope, empty expectations and disappointment
Marry a guy who says things like:
“I’m proud of you”
“How can I help you?”
“We’ll figure it out together”
“It’s an honor to love you”
“I’m your biggest fan”
“Let’s pray about it”
“Let’s grow together”
“I believe in you”
princess treatment isn't when he buys you expensive gifts. It's when he never lets you go to sleep upset, listens to you, is soft with you, respects you, and changes his actions when it hurts you.