@TaraBull Easy fix for me, I don't buy food from restaurants that ask for tips and or charge the customers "fees" or put myself in that position. Everyone loves to ignore the fact that the origins of tipping in the United States is rooted deeply in racism after the abolition of slavery.
In some shape , form, or fashion, everyone you know and even those who you hold close to you will let you down. It's not a matter of if but a matter of when and how hard....