@pacificraft What a dick, but nothing new there. I'm a Dann Fan but he needs to ensure his voice pitch doesn't elevate when he gets 'into it'. Undermines his grit.
@PronouncedHare Hmmm isn't it about helping those if you are able. Me (woman) and my able bodied young adult children, would be helping/prioritizing anyone less able, and I would hope someone, man or otherwise would do the same. A vulnerability triage.