@goodlucksofea Kalu ukuran belanja n mas kawin jadi ukuran, habislah. Marriage is more then that. Takdak ADAT kan, esok kita tgk depa ada buat adat persandingan tak
@goodlucksofea Pepatah,org melayu mmg kaya dgn adat. Setiap adat ada sebabnya, common sense and logic will prevail, pi study dulu sebelum nak bercakap mcm org takdak adat. Menghormati org tua dlm percakapan adlh dlm Islam dan adat. Haru la orgยฒ lani.
Look at this screenshot from a dashcam. I'm sure you have seen the video.
That grey Honda. That motorcycle ahead.
A few seconds after this was taken, that man lost his life.
He had left home that Sunday morning to get something for his kids. That was his whole plan for the day.
But he never made it home.
The driver of that grey car was drunk and high on drugs at the same time. Before noon on a Sunday.
I keep staring at this screenshot because in this frame, everything still looks completely normal. Just another morning on a Malaysian road.
And then it wasn't.
I've been fortunate to travel to many countries over the years.
And one thing I consistently notice, whether it's a developed nation or somewhere like Morocco, you feel enforcement on the roads.
Not just during holidays. Regularly. It becomes part of how you drive.
Here in Malaysia, the laws are actually quite strict on paper (should be even more strict).
Drunk driving carries a minimum RM8,000 fine and 3 years jail. If someone dies, the driver faces up to 15 years in prison.
I'm not saying enforcement isn't happening. I think it is. But not in the way people feel it in their everyday lives.
And that's the issue...
His kids are still waiting for him to come home.
To everyone in a position to change this, please make enforcement something people feel every single day.
Salam Takziah to the family.