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@alley_robin_@Holy_CrowitsMe@aan0re I the the og artist (of what I'm guessing is a transphobix art) has absolutely no idea how public bathrooms work. Men's restrooms don't have toilets in the open either. Not a single bathroom does unless it's just one-person bathroom.
@alley_robin_@ur_pal_madi@Caramelic0@biggestskklover @jaynikss @aan0re Like the semi-recent discussion of the video regarding a man going with his baby daughter to the women's bathroom. Or even the idea of how to enforce those policies in the first place. Or simply very fem men and very butch lesbians. I'd say just let people piss and leave.
@alley_robin_@ur_pal_madi@Caramelic0@biggestskklover @jaynikss @aan0re Masc women already belong in female spaces, a lot of women are just weird about it (very butch lesbians tend to get a lot of dirty looks). Bathrooms are in general a weird topic to make policies about, because there's a lot of nuance, even excluding anything trans-related.
@alley_robin_@biggestskklover @jaynikss @aan0re Fully transitioned trans man looks just a regular dude. It would be the equivalent of a cis man walking into the women's restroom, because a) the don't know he's trans and b) it wouldn't change anything if they knew. He would probably have a phallo surgery by this point.
@BoudriesKe75357 preferences usually boil down to how much you can relate to certain types of ships and they're not restrictive either; someone can prefer wlw but still likes certain mlm/wlm.
Neither is better than the others by itself, but they can be better *to someone* based on their own taste
@BoudriesKe75357 preference in ships/media is not homophobic
bashing mlm and wlw for being queer/even existing is homophobic
there's major difference here
@starlit_radiant @AgereRui I'd say blind nostalgia. It's harder to drop something that was a big contributor to shaping your youth and was often times your gateway into many other things.
Harder, but still should be done. You can acknowledge something was meaningful to you and still let it go