@ReclaimD1 Buddy, she said her boyfriend is Vietnamese. White washed, sure, but he's not white. What she experienced is sad and unfortunate, neverthless.
A Chinese "leftover" Woman has a meltdown at weekly bride's market in China
She pleads her case with parents of potential groom's, who have travelled from neighbouring city to look for a bride for their Sons
She shouts that she earns 500,000 Yuan and has a good job, yet no one entertains her because she is over 30
In China, Women over 30 are labelled as "leftover women" and are not considered marriageable material, no matter how educated or successful they are
Shyness lives at the identity level. At some point you decided you were the kind of person who is not safe to be fully seen, and every shy moment since has been you obeying that decision.
Most people think shyness is about other people. It is not. It is about the relationship you have with yourself when other people are watching. You are not afraid of strangers, you are afraid of being witnessed inside an identity you do not fully believe in. The discomfort you feel in a room is the gap between who you are pretending to be and who you secretly think you are, and that gap gets exposed the moment eyes land on you.
This is why advice like "just be confident" does nothing. You cannot perform confidence on top of an identity that does not include it. Your voice shrinks, your shoulders round, your eyes find the floor, because your body is loyal to the picture underneath, and the picture says you should not take up space.
Shyness is almost always a protection strategy from childhood. Being seen got punished at some point. You were laughed at, criticized, or raised by someone whose attention felt unsafe, and you learned that staying small was how you survived. It is an outdated survival response that nobody updated.
For most people pushing yourself into situation after situation only works on the surface. The identity underneath stays the same, and the moment your effort drops, it pulls you back to where you started. Actual change happens when you shift who you believe you are in private, since that is the version of you that shows up in public.
The shift happens when you stop trying to overcome shyness and start questioning the identity that produces it. You sit with the actual belief, that you are too much or not enough or fundamentally not built for this, and you ask where it came from. Most of the time it was installed by someone whose opinion you would not trust today, and your entire shyness is built on a foundation laid by a person who no longer has any authority in your life.
Then you build a new identity through vivid daily imagination, rehearsing the version of you that has nothing to hide, until it becomes more familiar than the old one. The behavior follows on its own.
The version of you that emerges on the other side of this is not someone new. It is who you would have been all along if you had not been busy managing how you came across.
sorry to break it to you but you literally have to face your fears and slaughter them. otherwise you will live a small life that you do not want. you literally have to view your biggest fears and attack them head on. you have to fall into the abyss to find your way out. the easy path does not exist. there is no get out of jail free card. you have to allow yourself to die a spiritual death over and over again in order to reinvent yourself into the person you are actually supposed to be. and you have to be painfully honest with yourself and the people around you. it’s horrible but it’s truly the only way.
Meet the Admin of Indian Hatred Page Md Yousuf Ali, He is from India
You will see How Yousuf work with Pakistani and Bangladeshi mooslims to help Europeans, Farming Hate for India and Hindus on Social Media Platforms.
A Exposing Thread 🧵
As expected, it was all part of the Pakistani hate and propaganda wing, DGISPR. Look at how they're boasting about hacking the algorithm and requesting their followers to normalize hate against Indians to the point where people don't even hesitate to kill them.