it's not a "rape kink." ppl do not engage in CnC cuz they think rape is sexy and want it to happen. It's about being able to have control over a situation many fear that otherwise would be horrifying and traumatizing.
Tuca and Bertie does a rlly good job explaining this concept.
When you say that *sometimes* people take some fiction and fandom matters way too seriously and some incest lolisho lover comes to your comments thinking you're in their side