I think to myself… why do I let my boyfriend control me this way.
1-he is amazing and deserves to be worshipped,
2-he knows better and as he says, only one person in the relationship should be blowing loads.
Of course I want out, but the joy he gets out of this makes me so happy!
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Hey sex nerds. Reminder that asexuality is the lack of or lower sexual attraction. It is a spectrum like many areas of sex.
Being ace doesn't mean you cant be sexual or that you don't enjoy kink. It just means there might be fluctuation based on a number of factors.
Dominance isn't so much of a 'give and take' as it is a linear progression towards a goal that requires your incremental participation.
What does this mean? It means I give a tiny command, you comply, I give another command, you comply, and we both move towards a goal.
Each time you hesitate or resist or create friction in the little things, every time you refuse to comply with a little command, each time you choose stubbornness instead of pliability, you interrupt and hold back the entire wave of commands I'm planning next for what will come after; more and more action and momentum that will lead to our mutual goals being achieved.
Each time you comply with something small, you give me the confidence in you to encourage bigger commands, give you more responsibility, achieve bigger things. Each successfully followed command adds drop after drop to the tidal wave of power I can eventually wield to make big things happen for us.
Comply with EVERY command, not just the ones you feel like following.
It's up to YOU, submissive: you can either be stubborn and choose for both you and your dominant to become frustrated and resentful for your lack of progress together, or you can choose to support every command no matter how small, and encourage your leader to do what they do best, and lead you both towards your mutual goals.