Every extended period of my life that was successful and fun has a high positive correlation with the number of anime I watched that year. The more anime I watch, the happier I am. The happier I am, the more motivated I am to do well. It's clear now... I need to watch more anime
"Getting a girl is easy! All you got to do is be yourself. Oh and don't forget to also be confident, charming, charismatic, and everything else you aren't."
When I validly mention my problems and constraints, they get upset.
"You're so negativistic," they say
But I'm only being honest. That's all I've ever been. I've always known I wouldn't make it and no amount of additional knowledge or skills will make that any less true.