It’s not okay to put your entire life’s baggage and abandonment issues on a person and expect them to just understand you immediately - it’s so unfair because they can never reach up to that. Love should be light on your heart.
how much of a broken person can one heal? I know love heals but what if the broken person ends up breaking you everyday? Is that okay? Is that massive responsibility of fixing someone’s lifelong pain okay for your tender shoulders? Is it okay for them to weigh that over you?
I don’t think it’s okay for an unhealed and broken person to come and weigh all their baggage onto you, and expect you to carry all weight for them without ever creating a foundation of happiness, stability, light-hearted fun and security with you
It will always baffle me how men pursue women who they know they cannot keep happy with a false sense of romance and theatrics, and then ruins her peace and general daily life after she gives in