@theapriorist That's masking and it's exhausting. The constant switching between acting out what you think you should be and being your authentic self is not just it. It almost always ends up in someone without an identity
@caffeinosis@estherzelda0514@thechosenberg He's not asexual. He gets excited about the idea.. the arousal of desire..but the act in itself is boring. He enjoys the process more than the result. It's like seduction does not have a definite outcome but Sex does. He might be neurodivergent possibly.
@prasokour@estherzelda0514@thechosenberg I would think however the idea of sex to him is boring .. but he indulges in pleasing his wife cause he views her pleasure as a challenge, one that has to be overcome. It's more like the motivation to indulge comes from the end-result.
The latest shadow ban is crazy.
1.2 million people signed up to follow my posts here, and only 10,000 are being allowed to see what I post
Very interesting situation.