Some ppl struggle with budgeting because they try to budget based on what they think they should do. If you enjoy eating out and wanna budget a couple hundred dollars a month to that, then do it. Cut back on groceries if you know you’re not gonna cook
The same apartments that were just $700-800 are now $1200-1300 in the GHETTO. People making $19-20 an hour STILL struggling , working 2 jobs STILL struggling. Groceries high , gas high , like do y’all not see this shit or y’all don’t care?
You keep letting those memories revisit you. Why? It’s ok. You made it through. Live, now. It’s time to live, & love & to be free & to be happy. You made mistakes. You’re human. Forgive yourself. You’re ok.
At a certain point you just get tired of your own acts. you have to force yourself to meditate, workout, eat mindfully and read the books to form a routine that gives you a sense of happiness within yourself again. it’s exhausting i know, but you gotta keep fighting for yourself