Spending a billion on a mosque, building social institutions, or performing Tahajjud is the easy part. The real challenge is much harder which we seldom pay attention to.
House rent
Feeding
School fees
Diapers
Health
Emergencies
Gas
Electricity
Water
Fuel/transportation
Vigilante/Estate fee
Data
Family (parents/siblings)
Sallah cloth
Sallah ram
Sallah food
Something got spoilt
Something got exhausted
Miscellaneous
All these calculation will be in your head then you will come online and see nonsènse talk about men and irresponsibility with careless general statements. How many women can do half of these for a man and not expect submission from him or tolerate his excesses huh? No be one small moodswing you go show she go don pursue you go your mother house? Mchww!
We are saying it again, if your father or husband is irresponsible, say “My husband Mr Sulaimon Owonikoko is an irresponsible man”. Stop dragging men thinking of the complex algebra of how to meet the bills in their home into your reckless generalisations. Do you even understand what it takes to be responsible?
— Abu Imrān
Parents, please be aware of the types of people you allow into your home and those you approve your children to visit.
Yesterday I heard a disturbing story about my friend’s landlord’s granddaughter, a five-year-old girl who molested a younger boy. The boy’s mother noticed that whenever she was cleaning him or bathing him he became aroused.
Concerned, she informed the boy’s father. Further investigation revealed that the girl would lure the boy behind a curtain and then fondle him. They informed the girl’s mother (a single mother) who was unbothered and told them to take their complaints to the girl’s grandmother.
However, further investigations showed this wasn’t the girl’s first offence, she had done the same to another tenant’s son and was also planning to try it with another boy. When she visited them, she would want to play with the boy behind the curtain. The mother would ask them to come out, but then the girl would ask if they could go inside the room. At that point, the mother would ask her not to come to their house again.
Please, if you know anyone who is a perpetrator, inform others so they don’t become victims of their evil acts.
“I cook for my husband”= You’re a slave
“We split the bills”= Your husband is useless
“I spoil my wife”= You’re a simp
“I dress modestly”= You’re in an abusive marriage
“My wife and I make decisions together”= You’re not a real man
“I can’t do random nights out because I’m married” = You’re husband/wife is controlling
“My wife earns more than me”= You’re a useless leech
“My husband is the breadwinner”= You have no say since you bring nothing to the table
“I don’t need a male/female bestie because I’m married”= Your partner is insecure
This is how some of you see the world 😂
Y’all are far too pathetic and miserable to really understand what goes into making a marriage successful. Happy couples should keep it to themselves because you guys will find a fault in everything they do.
@UthmanTochukwu Surah An-Noor, Verse 32:
And marry those among you who are single and those who are fit among your male slaves and your female slaves; if they are needy, Allah will make them free from want out of His grace; and Allah is Ample-giving, Knowing.
Do not give birth to children you cannot train. Islam does not allow giving birth to children without training. If you cannot train a child then you should opt for family planning. If you can only train one then you shouldn't go beyond one as I have always advised couples.
How could someone give birth to a child who impulsively sets a mosque ablaze while the Fajr prayer was ongoing?
We now have cases of hoodlums who have prevented women from moving around the streets with their handbags and phones, armed hoodlums who steal cars and motorcycles. Not even mosque properties are safe. This is why you see wall clocks and sound systems locked in cages in mosques. You see inscription like 'Not for sale' on the copies of Quran in mosques because someone is ready to steal them and sell them..."— Shaykh Aminu Daurawa.
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there's nothing funny about married people cheating on their spouses. especially the men, because it's rampant among men. if you're in the act, get your shit together. it's disgraceful and you have no honour among honourable men. you have no honour with Allāh.
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Imām Ahmad Ibn Hanbal رحمه الله said: “I married at the age of 40 and due to that Allāh
granted (me) much good.”
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Are touts now allowed to extort people at Murtala Muhammed International Airport?
I was at the airport yesterday to pick up my parents. They were already at the arrival pick-up point before I arrived, so I didn’t need to use the car park. I went straight to the arrival area for the pick-up. As I waited for the car in front of me, a man approached me holding some cash. He said I had to pay N1,500. I was surprised and asked why.
He said I had to pay because I was picking someone up at the airport. I was still processing this when he asked if I had used the car park. I said no. He said if I had, I would’ve shown him the payment receipt for the parking ticket and wouldn’t have to pay again. I refused and asked him to show me proof that I had to pay.
Then another man in a FAAN uniform walked to me and said, “You’ll have to pay the money o. This is the airport, and these are the monies they use to maintain it.” I asked again why and asked him to show me proof. He pointed to a small cashless policy banner. I became very angry but kept my cool. The first man came back and said, “It’s because you’re my brother (trying to say it’s because we’re both Muslims) that’s why he’s letting me go.”
There were officers present at the pick-up point, but all of this was happening. I drove off quickly and called my sister, who was a few minutes behind, to pick up my stepmother and warn her not to fall for the scam.
@FAAN_Official@fkeyamo Please look into this matter.
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INVESTIGATION: Repackaged expired products dominate Nigeria's N34trn food market
Food items meant to be sold in sealed packs are now being scooped from buckets and sacks in many Lagos markets.
A BusinessDay investigation found that some of these products originate from expired, near-expiry, or rejected factory stocks, stripped of their labels and resold cheaply to consumers.
This billion-naira underground trade continues to thrive across Nigerian markets, raising concerns about food safety and public health.
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Please be cautious when buying petrol at filling stations. It’s the second time they’ve tried to scam me. The first incident happened at NNPC filling stations in Ojodu and the second this morning at Mobil Petrol and CNG station at the Challenge bus stop, Vono along the Agege motorway. After informing the attendant of the petrol amount I wanted, they programmed the same amount into the machine and started dispensing it. Suddenly, the machine stopped and the exact amount began blinking on the digital display.
The first time at NNPC, I hadn’t experienced anything like it but was sceptical. I asked why the display only showed the figure and not the litres I bought. He said, “He thinks they changed the power switch, that’s why it’s like that.” It was early morning and I was travelling, so I wanted to believe him and continue on my way. However, I wasn’t convinced. I asked if the power was stable now and he said yes. I then asked, “Please display the total litres sold.” When I checked the last sale amount, it wasn’t up to what I wanted. After some back-and-forth, he called his colleague who pressed buttons on the other side of the machine. The exact amount he had dispensed then appeared on the display. I think he shorted me about 7-8k. I simply asked him to finish my petrol and left.
When I saw the same digital display blinking this morning, I knew the lady was trying to pull a fast one on me. I asked why the display was blinking and she said the light went off and all that. I told her to pull the litres sold and she called her colleague. Suddenly, the exact amount she had sold appeared on the display. She had shorted me about 5-6k without me asking. She did the calculations and completed my sale.
I’m certain they’ve successfully stolen from many people. Please be vigilant.
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Language: Yoruba
**Snippets from the Halqah of As-Sanady
“Do not let anyone deceive you, you have not done anything for the Deen of Allah.”
A powerful and humbling reminder by Ustadh Abu Khadeejah As-Sanady (Hafidhohullah) on sincerity, humility, and the reality of our efforts in serving the religion of Allah.