everyone is miserable in this country because our society is so anti love. so much so that a marriage between two consenting individuals who love each other aka what should be the default is considered gossip fodder for families because it's a transgressive "love marriage."
Job market is tanking everywhere and job hunts are humiliation rituals. But India really takes it to the next level. Asking a potential candidate what their parents do, siblings career and which area of the city they live in, is so classist and irrelevant.
If you never dated in college and never got your heart broken, life will hit differently later.
Heartbreak in your younger years teaches you things no classroom ever can how people change, how attachment works, how pain feels, how to handle rejection, and how to grow from it.
It sounds weird, but it is what it is
sinceramente, odio que hayamos normalizado la idea de que todas las opiniones son válidas. Creo que deberíamos volver a decirle a la gente que está mal informada y es ignorante.
Why is it so hard for some people to understand that India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh have a shared cultural heritage that has little to do with religion?